"Now the children have a lot of pressure" "We are becoming less tolerant of normal behavior of children, "says the doctor Carlos González. "Now the children suffer great pressure and, in those circumstances, it is not surprising that even suffering from new diseases such as hyperactivity. Many families are frightened or confused for circumstances that are common and in many cases are settled simply explaining what happens. "
The specialist was not in favor of giving general advice on this matter. "Not beyond recommendations as not to hit or not to alcohol," notes ironically and explains the multiplicity of issues surrounding the care of children because of time spent in their company. "Some parents feel obliged to do extraordinary things, such as early childhood development or other, to compensate for that." The author of "Between your doctor and you ', recently published, examines several key issues related to the care of children.
- Changing roles
Most parent involvement in early childhood education is questioned by Gonzalez. "The biological imperative commands' claims and, while acknowledging that now they cook and change diapers, underscores the growing separation from the parent with older children. The doctor suggests that before playing with the children, but occupation and television seem to stop and, therefore, intra-family relationships suffer in that stage of development.
also refers to the tensions generated by the birth of the baby, suddenly become the hero of all the attention. In his experience, it is frequent to get parental jealousy, but suggests that mature and balanced peer have to understand the changes and collaborate. "Although some people seem to find his wife did not care that child."
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The Lost Dream Children do not sleep alone. The doctor rejects the theory that they should sleep in rooms themselves from an early age, an approach advocated by the "method Estivill. "So what can be simple, that is, be with him and to sleep alone, becomes endless walks along the corridor at night."
also criticizes the implicit message that it is not worth mourn, if you will not even be screaming. Moreover, in his view, the practice goes against our instincts. "When a child cries, I instinctively tried to console him."
not think that can instill bad habits meeting their requirements. "The idea that children learn the habit is a widespread misconception" he said. "Change over time, the four did not ask to go in her arms, the eight do not allow themselves to shake hands with twelve prevent the kiss in front of his friends."
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at the table "Four meals a day? "It's another thesis of the author and, interestingly, adults do not carry out", it complains and acknowledges that it is absurd to try to impose something we do not do. "Do not follow that the same number or in each shot, even at the same times depending on the day of the week. " Lactation
is also controversial. "Everyone must make their own decisions about" defending Gonzalez and suggests that if mothers are willing, to enjoy this relationship with his son, "but did not do so because they feel obliged."
- grows boy grows
The doctor also recommends an individual assessment on this issue and blamed some medical culpability in the generation of obsessions. "Physicians are constantly weigh and measure babies' signals and regrets that come to ensure that half does not grow as expected when "95% of children have normal development." Faced with such exaggeration, argues the importance of childhood obesity, one of the biggest problems is childhood obesity. "It places great emphasis on eating more, in the end, they eat more."
- child consumption
Some parents believe that vaccines are counterproductive, they threaten the health of their children, others feel that this is just a fat business in the pharmaceutical industry, and even reasons adduced ethical or religious. "We talked about a growing phenomenon," warns the doctor. "There's too much manipulation regard. People should know they are necessary and which are manufactured with a quality scales that have nothing to do with the pressure of American imperialism. "
Commercial pressure is another factor that changes behavior in education and childcare. "It takes advantage of the ease of the mothers to feel guilty," he argued. "With every new product, the question arises of whether they should buy, you are warm, more developed, more happy, when all he requires is that you're with him. You will meet twelve and asked all! ".
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